First date: what to say and do to make a man want to see you again. There you go, you've done it - you have a date with him! The excitement is over, and now stress has set in, because, after the first meet, you can't just wing it again. To avoid making a fashion faux pas or a committing a dating blunder, try to fulfill the expectations that the man you like might have. Depending on his astrological sign, we'll tell you how to dress your best, what topics to bring up, and even how to strike up a conversation.
In order for this first date to lead to a second, and for this to lead to a wonderful romance, here are all the tips for every sign to make this moment one that your loved one will remember for a long time to come...
What do you talk to him about? Igore him to intrigue him, then pal around with his friends to really get under his skin. When you feel he's ready, challenge with a steady stare directly into his eyes. Once you've made contact, be direct, flashy, and funny. If you make him laugh, you've got him.
What next? Between pilate sessions and business lunches, you don't have a single minute to yourself. And so, once you manage to devote some of your time to him, he'll be flattered. And comforted. The freer he feels you to be, the more he'll run after you.
What do you talk to him about? Start off by talking to him about good wine and fine foods - then give him a knowing look so that he understands that your appetite is for more than just the pleasures of the table.
What next? Take him back to your place to a subdued and gentle atmosphere and savor him like a favorite dish. Arouse his sight, sound, smell, and desire to touch. If his sense are aflame, you can be sure he'll come back for dessert.
What do you talk to him about? Start with the latest films before moving on to politics, economics, the latest gossip, and then Kantian philosophy. This intellectual channel-hopping will reveal that you have a quick mind, which the Gemini is particularly sensitive to. Let him know that, with you, he'll never get bored.
What next? Be unpredictable. Forget that date that he asked you out on. You are so overbooked that it just slipped your mind. If he reacts in kind, take it with a sense of humor. Play with him like he plays with you, and, hating to lose as he does, who will make it out on top?
What do you talk to him about? Take an interest in what he does. Have him talk about his problems, and, above all, listen to what he says. Have compassion and be attentive and you're all set!
What next? Prove to him that you'll never abandon him. To do so, organize his whole life around you. Be in turn his coach, boss, confidant, sister, lover, mother, and point of reference. Take care of some of his responsibilities: nothing to think about, nothing to decide on - pure happiness!
What do you talk to him about? Let out a few well-chosen critiques about other people, but find everything he says to be wonderful - yet without coming off as a total suck-up. Between your professional goals and thrilling small talk, hint to him that you lead a wild life. Leo being an exceptional person, he can't just settle for a maid.
What next? Be completely sublime first thing. Compliment his radiant look, big car, and his perfect swing. Arous his jealousy, too, if he gets the idea in his head to look elsewhere. Having a woman like you is a privilege that your Leo will never forget.
What do you talk to him about? Brainy as Virgo is, say little, but say it well, and back up your words. Don't put anything out there that you can't prove. And, most important of all, don't use useless gestures or shocking words. Mind your manners all on your own.
What next? Confess your feelings for him as if it were the most sensible thing in the world. If he raises objections, respond with statistics on the benefits of couple's life. Then, unbutton his shirt without warning - he won't be as uptight as one might think. After letting your body go wild, straighten up your skirt and get back down to work.
What do you talk to him about? Operas, ballets, painting - show your enthusiasm for the artform in a melodic voice. Charm this esthete with your sophisticated conversation. It is unseemly to speak ill of others (too crude...),but, on the other hand, speak highly of him. You will reassure him that others still find him attractive.
What next? No noise or conflict. If you have a remark to make, be tactful, and never upset the harmony that Libra years for. As he considers you to be quintessential example of what chic is, he'd be shocked to see you act like a shrew.
What do you talk to him about? Show that you think for yourself. Avoid being politically correct, and have a new and unheard-of view on things or people. Sprinkle it all with ambiguous remarks and long silences. Mystery is your best friend.
What next? Even on the first date, just follow what your body tells you. You're not stupid and neither is he. You want it, so does he. What you express through your sighs and desires will be even more telling than a long talk anyway.
What do you talk to him about? Get rid of small talk - the goal is to make him lose it with your laughter, quick wit, and lust for life. Then, bring up your latest trip through Morocco and your weekly jogs to show him you're an in-shape, sporty girl - and resist him, too! Since he sees himself as a hero, give him the chance to lift you up on his white steed.
What next? Be enthusiastic about his goals, believe in him, and leave him alone. He needs a self-sufficient woman who lives her own life, not a bimbo who's afraid of her own shadow.
What do you talk to him about? Show him you have something to offer: goals, power, ambition - and that together you will be able to make great things happen. Viewing a relationship like a business deal, he's already drawing up the contract.
What next? Don't say anything lightly. Don't do anything that you haven't mulled over. He needs a responsible partner, not a featherbrain who doesn't know what she wants. Most of all, make him laugh. He is so serious that he counts on you to decompress.
What do you talk to him about? Get ready for some verbal back-and-forth. Let the ideas fly, quickly and in every direction. If the subject doesn't do it for you, tell him frankly rather than revisit old ground. A woman who has the guts to be who she is will be what wins him over.
What next? Invite him out for a night-out where everyone is on a first name basis. Make his head spin with your learning and the people you know - then lead your own life. Your independence will ensure that you won't always be in his way. Yikes!
What do you talk to him about? Reveal your sensitivity and show your emotions. Strong on empathy, Pisces will instinctually tune into what makes you special. Next, bring up a tough time you've gone through, and he'll offer you a shoulder to lean on without having to be asked.
What next? Cultivate secrecy about your activities so that he will dream about you constantly. Don't ever really actually be there. Leave his questions unanswered. Look like you've just woken up when he asks you to explain yourself. The crazier he's driven, the quicker you will weedle your way into his heart.